Amish Myth Busting: Separating Fact from Fiction in Amish Life
How Marriages Are Approved
In Amish culture, a marriage needs a blessing to be accepted. Interestingly, this blessing is given by church leaders and not as much by the couple’s parents as one would think. The blessing process begins after a proposal, which typically comes from the man. Both families and the church must approve the proposal.
If denied, the couple must accept the decision and can’t marry. Acceptance sees the engagement announced during a Sunday church service and posted in the town’s paper. This public announcement reinforces community involvement and support for the union. The blessing emphasizes the importance of family and community in marital decisions that align with their values and traditions.
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