Amish Myth Busting: Separating Fact from Fiction in Amish Life
One Night, No Intimacy
In a unique courtship tradition, Amish couples share a bed before marriage for one night only. This practice called “bundling,” involves fully clothed couples lying together to talk and bond. Intimacy is strictly prohibited; just talk to get to know each other better before committing. The goal is to foster emotional connection and mutual understanding without physical contact.
Courtship typically starts after church events, with couples getting to know each other through supervised activities. If they decide to marry, the community’s approval is sought. This tradition emphasizes emotional intimacy and strong communication, ensuring a solid foundation for marriage. It reflects their values of modesty and purity.
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